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This talk about what it means to give Christlike service. Given on 10 March 2011 at Pauline Smith's funeral, in the Ashburn, VA Stake Center.

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On Pauline Smith

A Talk Given at Pauline Smith's Funeral Service
in Ashburn, Virginia

By D. Calvin Andrus
mailto:calvin.andrus@gmail.com

10 March 2010, Version 0.1

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Introduction

Dear friends and family of Pauline Smith. My name is Calvin Andrus. I am a friend of the Smith family. I had the great honor and privilege to serve in the Church with Pauline. I would like to reflect for a moment on what that has meant to me and others.


Background

Our family has known the Smith family for 26 years. When we first moved to Sterling our backyard fence had a gate that opened up on to the Guilford Elementary school yard. It turns out that straight across the school yard, the Smith's had a backyard fence that also had a gate that opened up on to the school yard. We could walk back and forth the Smith's pretty easily.

I have been assigned to be the Smith's home teacher several times over the years. Early on, my older two boys, Stan and Ryan, would go with me across the school yard to visit the Smiths. I felt like a good home teacher, because every time I would go home teaching, Christie would have a boyfriend there waiting for us to give a lesson. I later learned that Christie just had a boyfriend over all the time and it had nothing to do with us as home teachers. As home teachers, we were proud of Rob and Mike for going on missions . . . and, that Robin married a performer.

Sister Andrus teaches piano in our home after school. For a number of years she hired Jessica to tend our two daughters, Brooke and Chelsea, in the afternoons before I got home from work. Our daughters just loved being with Jesse in the Smith home. She introduced them to cheerleading as well as arts and crafts.

Scott was a scout when I was a scoutmaster. Having Scott in my troop lead me to conclude that if Isaac had been a scout, it would not have been a sacrifice. We were very pleased when Scott went on his mission, though he couldn't leave without breaking his arm first.


Linda Andros

One of Pauline's close friends is Linda Andros. Linda and Pauline grew up in the same Stake in Wyoming. During the time Pauline was our ward Relief Society President, Linda was the Stake Relief Society President. Linda can't be here today because she is serving a mission in Greece. Upon hearing of Pauline's passing, Linda sent me some reflections which I would like to read on her behalf. Quote:

Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies…” Pauline Smith exemplifies that woman described in Proverbs 31. She is such a loving woman, always looking for the good in every person and every circumstance (and she has faced some difficult challenges in her life). Her rich alto voice, her artistic talent, her industry, her kindness, her faith in Jesus Christ are all hallmarks of Pauline and these and many other talents, she shared freely with others, as she constantly served her sisters, her friends and her family.

As Relief Society President, Pauline was humble, willing to learn, and eager to serve the sisters and to do things right. She had a gift for recognizing the talents of others and an ability to bring together many sisters with varied talents for the benefit of all concerned. Whether it was a funeral dinner, an enrichment meeting, or visiting teaching conference it was carefully planned to meet the need of those involved. Each Relief Society event that she planned was lovely and uplifting and always had Pauline’s special touches: delicious food, a carefully carried out theme with programs, invitations, decorations, etc. and most importantly: sisters who Pauline had loved into attendance. Many times I have been the beneficiary of one of Pauline’s handmade favors that became keepsakes. I counted myself lucky to have her as my Relief society president. I was often away on stake business or family visits, but whenever I attended our ward, she always welcomed me with a warm hug and loving words that let me know I had been missed! While she was Relief Society President, she did something each week that was extremely meaningful to the mothers in the ward with young children. Each week, they were invited to bring their children to Pauline’s house. While the kids played in the yard, the mothers enjoyed leaning a craft from Pauline and visiting with each other. Afterwards they would eat a potluck lunch together. I know that the young mothers treasured this time together with Pauline.

One thing that comes to mind that exemplifies the way Pauline did things in her life was actually something she did after she was released as Relief Society President. We were planning a stake Humanitarian Aid service project. As part of that, we wanted the sisters to be able to tie a quilt to be placed somewhere in the world where a sister needed to be warm and to feel loved. I asked Pauline if she would buy the material and have it set up for the sisters to tie that evening. She willingly accepted and was enthusiastic about the assignment. I had asked her because of herexpertise in knowing what kind of supplies to buy and how to set up a quilt. I was thinking of the most simple tied quilt—a twin sized sheet on the front, some batting, a sheet on the back—set up on some frames for the sisters to tie. But Pauline did something amazing, and this is typical of Pauline: She carefully chose some beautiful and colorful matching fabrics and pieced together the most beautiful queen-sized quilt! The many hours she willingly spent on creating the intricate design reflected her willingness to share her love and talents with even an unknown sister. The night of the service project, the sisters tied the quilt, then Pauline took it home and bound it and the finished product was one any sister would have been proud to have on her bed! Today, somewhere in the world, a sister who needed love and warmth and some beauty in her life is enjoying Pauline’s beautiful creation.

Conclusion

In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen.